Keeping an affair secret

When what nobody wants has happened, and what most people are afraid of, especially in relationships, the question arises whether you should keep the affair secret or not. It also has to be said that the problems mostly start once you try to keep the affair secret. Everyone has to be clear that the carefree ease of the relationship is over from then on. This secret weighs on some people more, on others less. Some have kept an affair secret dozens of times, others are doing it for the first time. Do you become more resistant to a guilty conscience? Or does it get easier at some point to keep the affair secret? Good question, it depends entirely on the person

Should I keep an affair secret?

[caption id="attachment_263" align="aligncenter" width="300"]In general, it is never a good idea to try to keep an affair secret. The affair was necessary but I love you anyway? On reflection, that does not necessarily make sense.[/caption]

In general, it is never a good idea to try to keep an affair secret. Most of the time it comes out sooner or later anyway. You subconsciously behave differently toward your partner. You become more careful, try not to leave any traces. But that is exactly what makes it hard to keep the affair secret. Women in particular are very sensitive here and usually notice quite quickly when something is different, or when their partner is behaving differently. Once suspicion has been aroused, it becomes increasingly hard to keep the affair secret.

Does it get easier to keep an affair secret?

 

Some say it really does get easier over time to keep the affair secret. However, that also shows a hardness that is hard to match. Of course you do not want to hurt your partner. But isn't it worse to try to keep the affair secret for months? Instead of confessing it to your partner promptly? Professing your love does not make much sense here either. The affair was necessary but I love you anyway? On reflection, that does not necessarily make sense. So in general it is not advisable to want to keep the affair secret; you should confess it as quickly as possible.